Choose Your Crystal, Choose Your Orgasm

Just as you might experience different orgasms based on whether you’re alone, partnered, in a hurry, taking your time, and a million other variables, you might also find that your orgasms vary depending on what crystal you use. If you are experimenting with sex magic, you can even try charging your crystals with orgasmic energy and seeing how that shifts your relationship with your Chakrub. Here’s a guide to helping you choose your orgasm with intention according to crystal energy:

Prism – Known as the master healer stone, quartz is the most adaptable of all crystals and the best option if you’re seeking a specific experience that only you can articulate. It’s best to program this stone with intentions prior to use and make sure you’re in a clear head space as quartz will amplify your existing energies.

Heart – Rose quartz infuses love and beauty into every situation and is perfect if you are healing from a break up or struggling with feelings of unworthiness or self-doubt. Often when our hearts are hurting our sex drive suffers as a result. Rose quartz will gently open you up to self-love while enhancing confidence and self-compassion. It can also be used if you want to attract romance into your life; begin to imagine what this love would look and feel like and how your new lover will treat you. For maximum effectiveness, hold this visualization in your mind as you reach climax.

Xaga – Ancient cultures used to scry with obsidian mirrors and the obsidian Chakrub can also be used to reveal hidden elements about yourself. It’s not necessarily as gentle as rose quartz, but if you find yourself blocked in the bedroom and can’t figure out the cause, obsidian can help. It lends protective qualities as you delve into shadow work and can also be used to overcome past traumas. Expect a powerful release when you use this stone.

Amethyst – Amethyst reflects a similar violet hue as the crown chakra and can be used for expansive, transformative sexual experiences. When using this wand, you might find yourself traveling to other realms or having an out-of-body experience. It is important to ground and center prior and after using this crystal. Once used as a drinking gourd by the ancient Romans, Amethyst was believed to have a sobering quality. You can also use this stone for identifying and releasing bad habits, for example if you tend to attract a certain type of partner that is not in your best interest.

Indian Jade – Green aventurine is known as the stone of opportunity, and this magical stone will infuse a sense of optimism and joy into your sensual play. If masturbation intimidates you or you have a hard time getting out of your head, green aventurine can help you return to the present moment and release expectations. It can also be used to attract abundance, whether in love, finances, or any other area of your life you feel is lacking. Focus on what you want to manifest as energy builds and imagine that it is already yours.

Indigo – Blue aventurine connects with the third eye chakra to provide clarity and clear away excess chatter. If you find yourself at a fork in the road — perhaps debating whether to end a relationship or seek a new job — blue aventurine can provide a link between the heart and mind to help you get clear on what decision will best serve you. It will also restore balance if your yin and yang energies are out of whack and help you marry seemingly opposing aspects of yourself. This gentle stone can produce long, drawn out orgasms that course through the body like ocean waves.

Rabbit Jade – White jasper holds a purity that will remind you of your own divinity. If you are looking to release harmful attitudes or experiences, rabbit jade can assist in purifying your mind of that which no longer serves you. For those who have experienced sexual trauma and would like to begin a new relationship to themselves, rabbit jade can help rewrite your sexual story and redefine virginity as it pertains to you. It is a nurturing stone that allows you to see aspects of yourself — such as your inner mother — with more tenderness and care. Orgasms with this crystal may connect you to higher consciousness and help you achieve wholeness in mind, body, and spirit.

Sacral – Like all aventurine stones, orange aventurine encourages optimism and opportunity as well as a spirit of perseverance. It can increase confidence if you struggle with low self-esteem and enhance creativity. Use it for releasing past traumas and restoring a sense of independence. This is an ideal Chakrub if you need to release blockages in your sacral area and want to harness sexual energy for creativity. A morning session with this Chakrub prior to beginning work will invigorate your day and put you in a positive mood.

Gaia – Red jasper is a deeply grounding stone that will invigorate the root chakra. This crystal is helpful for those who need to balance masculine and feminine energies or bridge the gap between mind and body. It offers protective qualities and can increase sexual vigor for those with a waning appetite. This stone has been used since ancient times and can be helpful for receiving messages from ancestors and connecting to divine feminine knowledge. Sessions with this Chakrub may result in unexpected revelations, but there is no reason to fear these epiphanies as the energy of red jasper will shelter you from unwanted negativity.

If you already have a Chakrub, let us know in the comments how your experiences match up to what we’ve shared here.

Feature Image by Heather Reese

Author: Danielle Dorsey
About: Danielle Dorsey is a regular Chakrubs contributor who writes our monthly tarotscopes, new moon rituals, Chakrubs Current and edits most of Chakrubs editorial content. She is a freelance writer whose words have appeared in GirlBoss, LAist, Travel Noire, Lonely Planet, and more. Danielle has five years experience as a tarot reader and is a certified reiki master in Usui and Tibetan techniques. Danielle’s work centers around ancestral healing and helping those with marginalized identities achieve peace and wholeness. To check out Danielle’s writings visit and for more information about her tarot and reiki offerings visit